About ten percent of the women they have brains masculinizados.' ' Then we can perceive that men and women are really different, but, that each one a bit has of man (woman) or woman (man) inside of itself. We must know to deal with these differences that occur between both, therefore each one has its abilities as: one uses the space one, how much the other the verbal one, one more is agitated, another one is emptico, one is direct, another one likes to decorate the facts. We notice that many differences exist and that both have its necessities that go since the respect, the acceptance, the affection, the confidence and amongst that help in to more understand them a little on these primordial ones necessities. Communication We understand that the communication is the transmission of stimulatons and provoked answers, through a complete system or partially shared. It is all the transmission process and of exchange of messages between human beings, that is, the act or effect to communicate is the only form that we possess stops expressing in them, knowing and to become known.

Drescher (1998, p.112) in says &#039 to them; ' to communicate means, in fact, to distribute our soul with the other pessoa.' ' You are to deliver itself to its perpetual boyfriend total (she is as soon as we would have relating in them to our husband ()), to open its heart, speech what it is feeling, which are its necessities, its yearnings, what it is thinking, what you desire and wait of its spouse. According to author (1998, p.120) ' ' to communicate who we are is to disclose or to share our individuality with another person. It is to state completely what I am, that um.&#039 is different of any; ' Clearly that this will only occur will have much love between the couple, therefore the love leads to a honest communication. The communication does not mean to speak very, but to speak with quality, therefore many times we think that the amount is important, but that it does not pass of a banal colloquy, without a productive dialogue that really has quality. A marriage to function well, or to have a good harmony has that to have communication, to know to hear, to have time to speak, to express the feelings without aggressions, to choose the hour, the place and the correct form of speaking. Remembering that the said words have an enormous effect in the life of the other person who is hearing, therefore we must be cautious to speech. We do not have to speak at the moment of the anger, therefore we finish speaking what we did not want, we offend and we wound our spouse with our words, that is, verbally, that it is well worse of what if we had attacked physically. Therefore, the words can until killing who are hearing, then it takes care, it speaks without blowing up and it knows the moment certain to stop. We must be intent