In more than an occasion we have been in the life with people with who we have difficult conversations and of which we cannot escape. This can happen in labor situations, with the neighbors or in some misunderstanding. Next I describe some you rule that they can be advisable at the time of maintaining these conversations. Pregntale to the person also exceeds what it describes to you, not him attacks you to him, rather uses the question like means to make him feel included. It remembers that it is hoping that him attacks for llevarte to his land. Recurdale that does not have insultarte, recurdale that the respect is fundamental at the time of communicating. Dale thanks to the person when the conversation begins and when it finishes, of this form more it will be predisposed of positive way. Permtele that is expressed during a time, you do not enter the game of ” if you have spoken I also I have hacerlo” since this usually finalizes with a discussion.
Once you see that hazlo has been expressed you and recalcale that you have the right of to do it. Comntale to the person how you think that he is due to feel, and how you when hearing it feel. It realises commitments that are agreed to and carried out of clear way, if they can in writing be these commitments better. In case one refuses insists on which it sends an email to you with the summarized information than it wishes, of this form you will have a written test of the decided thing. When you speak ten in account your emotions but you do not let yourself take by them, rather mantn the control exceeds they. The power to be developed of way adapted in a difficult conversation can be turned into an element to your favor. In therapy improvement works much with assertiveness techniques, basing us on them the self-esteem and the automatic control of the person, and therefore its relation with itself and the others.